"Setiap bencana yang menimpa di bumi dan yang menimpa diri dirimu sendiri, semuanya telah tertulis dalam Kitab (Lauh Mahfuz) sebelum kami mewujudkannya. Sungguh, yang demikian itu mudah bagi Allah. Agar kamu tidak bersedih hati terhadap apa yang luput dari kamu, dan tidak pula terlalu gembira terhadap apa yang diberikan-Nya kepadamu. Dan Allah tidak menyukai setiap orang yang sombong dan membangga diri." Surah al-Hadid: 22 - 23
well... i guess it's just normal. having feelings makes us humans. we feel sad when we don't get what we hoped for. we feel sad when the events happening around us is not in our favour and we can't do anything about it.
not that we don't know that it's life's rule. C'est la vie. things change as time passas by. but sometimes it is hard for certain people to embrace the changes and adapt to it. we make friends and wants to hold on to the friendship, but people change... everyone change.
just merely throwing out my thoughts, as i personally feels quite hard to adapt to changes. but i know, as a helpless and weak being, all i can do is to hope for the best and pray for their success, wherever they are.
with our limited knowledge and views, we will only want for the best to happen. and we can only choose the best option based on our opinion and limited knowledge. just bear in mind that Allah knows everything, and what we know could always be wrong. do something and pray, don't lose faith in Allah, for He is just and all knowing.
let's ponder on an analogy here. humans can make something, such as chair or robot. try listing out the differences that shows far inferior the things that humans make and the human, who's the maker. robots can't even move without proper programming, they don't breathe, can't eat, can't learn, can't grow and so on. just imagine how much more superior our Creator is, being able to create humans, who don't even know every bits of detail about ourselves. just think about it.
some verses from the Quran:
"...dan boleh jadi kamu benci akan sesuatu, sedang is lebih baik bagimu; dan boleh jadi kamu kasihi sesuatu, sedang ia mudarat kepadamu. Dan Allah mengetahui, tetapi kamu tidak mengetahui." Surah Al-Baqarah: 216
"... dan janganlah kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiadalah yang berpututs asa dari rahmat Allah, melainkan kaum yang kafir." Surah Yusuf: 87
"...Dan Dia (Tuhan) tetap bersama-samamu walau di mana jua kamu berada...." Surah Al-Hadid: 4
wallahualam